Let it be, let it be…..
“When i find myself in times of trouble,
Mother Mary comes to me; speaking words of wisdom
Let it be….
- The Beatles – “
I was always the person whom took the extra precaution and step to care for others; only difference is that we all come to a points.. a point of failure- a point where we get disappointed; a point where we give up and ppl just pop up and your door step and say “Hey whats with the emo ? “
when i revisit most of my post i come to realize that people dont really need your “guidance” or ya “advise”. They seem to function fine without you around. For all those folk i tried to intevene and help (kaypo) i bid my farewell and would like to apologize for being a nossy douchebag. Rest assure i wont cross your line of the ones alike besides, you guys seems to be OK being “helpless”. Sorry
1 for the ungrateful bastards….
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SAS..you said that quite well..i got kena like that before also..always end up with a bigger probs/conflicts..when they realise, only then they wanna come and ask sorry this that..thats is when i give a one finger salute and then walk off..never to look behind again.
1 for the ungrateful bastards..no other words put it perfectly as this..
I see your predicament. Well, Sasi…a lot of people may encounter roadblocks and stuff in their life but they’re not incapacitated. You don’t have to feel like you need to ’save’ them all. Honestly, they don’t give a crap after all the dust has settled. So, only help those who truly needs it and for your own sake and happiness, don’t expect that they would return the deed for you. With that expectations not met, you will quickly become cynical…best to avoid that kind of expectations.
Skot : The idea of me writting this was exactly the oppsite reaction of wht you are projecting; you sound like a freedom figther, only thing is am not sure fer what
Dont get me wrong mates, once you channel that energy of yours to something and you my friend…. will take flight 
Elaine : Yea, thank you so much. I really get the point when u say help those who really need it. Its was just like Will Smith in 7 Pounds. Its just that we still need to run some preliminary tests before making the forward move towards “helping” BUT yes… i really felt ya connection today. Thanx heaps
Let me relate a tale to you sas
once there was this guy walking by a river. After a while, he spotted a scorpion drowning. He decided to help the scorpion out of the water so that the scorpion wont drown. As he was lifting the scorpion, he got painful stungs. And yet he tried over and over again. Then a passerby stopped and asked the man, why are you helping it when all you get is ungrateful stungs?. There is no point in helping in when all you get is pain instead of a thanks. Finally, the man left the scorpion and the scorpion drowned and died later..
The moral of the story:
If a person is in trouble and you tried to help the person out (despite the person asking for help), it is better to leave the person and move on. Let the ungrateful person “drown” in their problems and regret for not being grateful at first.
dont get me wrong buddy.
Skot : like i mentioned, channel it
Sure will..hehehe..thinking of paintball or hockey or a soothing game of pool..